"Love Life"
It's funny when you move to a new place. You settle in, make new friends, meet people, and if your single, you start dating. It's natural. Everyone does it. And it's fun.
Since moving here I've had to deal with this dating thing a great deal. For a while it left my in this state of utter confusion about what I should do. Should I just stay single, or should I pick one and start dating? Let's start with the candidates, shall we?
The Ex-Boyfriend:
When I moved here, he was kind enough to let me stay with him. Use his shower, sleep in his bed, eat his food, etc. And even though there was still a good amount of residule stuff, I was very good. There was hugging, but no kissing. There was cuddling, but no sex. There was a bit of flirting, but no "I love you" was ever mentioned.
The Forbidden Romance:
Something that was initially thought of as a one night stand turned into anything but. I was nervous about the situation we were in, and I was never entirely sure about what we were until it ended. I cared about him, I wanted a relationship, but that just didn't happen.
The Girl:
She's become a good friend. I didn't want to ruin that. And even if I had been interested, I know a 'Relationship' was not exactly what she had in mind.
The Friend:
My ideal situation for sparking up a relationship is to make a friend, get to know that person, and in the beginning it's really just a friendship. That's it. Someone to talk to, hang out with, watch movies with, bitch about love to. Whatever. It's Platonic. And then out of the blue, something happens. This is a person that you think
Why don't you ask them out?
SO?
And after a few beers and a good movie spent cuddling and nervously holding hands, there's a kiss. It's hard to tell who leaned in first, but it's happening, and you're not about to stop it.
Aren't we fucking cute?
Since moving here I've had to deal with this dating thing a great deal. For a while it left my in this state of utter confusion about what I should do. Should I just stay single, or should I pick one and start dating? Let's start with the candidates, shall we?
The Ex-Boyfriend:
When I moved here, he was kind enough to let me stay with him. Use his shower, sleep in his bed, eat his food, etc. And even though there was still a good amount of residule stuff, I was very good. There was hugging, but no kissing. There was cuddling, but no sex. There was a bit of flirting, but no "I love you" was ever mentioned.
The Forbidden Romance:
Something that was initially thought of as a one night stand turned into anything but. I was nervous about the situation we were in, and I was never entirely sure about what we were until it ended. I cared about him, I wanted a relationship, but that just didn't happen.
The Girl:
She's become a good friend. I didn't want to ruin that. And even if I had been interested, I know a 'Relationship' was not exactly what she had in mind.
The Friend:
My ideal situation for sparking up a relationship is to make a friend, get to know that person, and in the beginning it's really just a friendship. That's it. Someone to talk to, hang out with, watch movies with, bitch about love to. Whatever. It's Platonic. And then out of the blue, something happens. This is a person that you think
You know, this guy is so fucking awesome. Why doesn't he have a girlfriend
Why don't you ask them out?
Well, we're friends.
SO?
And after a few beers and a good movie spent cuddling and nervously holding hands, there's a kiss. It's hard to tell who leaned in first, but it's happening, and you're not about to stop it.
Aren't we fucking cute?
posted by Morgan at 12:27 PM
3 Comments:
Congratulations! Your kids sill be TEH CUTE!!!!
So Fucking cute!!! Friends first is the wat to go trust me!
What the hell woman! It has obviously been way, way, waaaaaaay too long since I talked to you last. Didn't know you'd started your own blog, didn't know you and the quadrigenarian had split, didn't know of any new boys, and now you're in love! Damn! Well, you ARE cute. And you need to hang out with my boyfriend more. I'm still chugging away (this is turning into an email rather than a comment) but I'll get out there soon, I promise! I love you and I miss you sweetheart! Good luck and keep it up -- you're amazing!
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